Late Bloomers

Starting school can be a challenging experience for children who are the youngest in their year group. Fortunately, there are steps you can take to help them thrive.

Homework

In the months before your child starts school, work on basic skills such as recognising letters, numbers and colours, all of which will give a new-starter a confidence boost. Also, reading books about starting school can help children know what to expect, and help them feel more comfortable.

Develop routine

Establish a consistent daily routine for meals, playtime and bedtime to help your child adjust to the structure of the school day. If you can, practise getting ready for school in the morning to make the transition smoother.

Build social skills

Arrange playdates with peers who will be in the same class to help your child make friends before school starts. You can even roleplay common school scenarios like sitting in class, sharing with friends, and asking the teacher for help.

Boost independence

Teach your child to manage basic self-care tasks like using the bathroom, washing hands and opening lunch boxes. Allow your child to make simple decisions, like picking out their clothes or choosing a snack – this will nurture their decision-making skills.

Positive attitude

Talk about school in a positive way, focusing on the fun aspects like making new friends and learning new things. Give lots of encouragement and praise for their efforts, no matter how small.

Communication with teachers

If possible, arrange to meet the teacher before school starts to establish a connection and discuss any concerns. It is always worth mentioning any apprehension you have about your child’s age or readiness for school.

Manage separation anxiety

If possible, gradually introduce your child to the school environment through short visits or school orientation days. These are also a great way for you to connect with other parents. When there, establish a quick and consistent goodbye ritual to provide reassurance.

Create a supportive environment

You can expect an amount of trepidation in the first few weeks of their new life, so allow your child to take a familiar item to school, like a small toy (if allowed) or a family photo, in order to provide comfort. Beyond that, be available to listen and support your child through their feelings and experiences.

Encourage resilience

Encourage your child to solve problems independently and offer guidance when needed.

Be sure to praise effort and perseverance, rather than just outcomes, in order to keep spirits high.

Monitor and adjust

Finally, pay attention to your child’s behaviour for signs of stress or anxiety and address them promptly, being flexible and willing to adjust routines or approaches based on your child’s needs and feedback.